Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a “10″
Jul 22nd, 2008 | By Vin DiCarlo | Category: Dating TipsBut before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the hard to tame “10,” a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10’s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true “10″.
The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.
One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
She knows what you’re about and sees you as shallow.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”
Let me explain it.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10’s. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10’s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here’s the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.
Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
She thinks to herself, “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you’ll have plenty of “adventures” to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year of your life missing out.
Vin












